“Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle and the life of the candle will not be shortened, Happiness never decreases from being shared” – Buddah
When did being able to take people out of your life so easily become a good thing? When did not trusting friends become easily attained? When did not having high expectations show a good mentality?
The generation I am seeing in this day, do not seem to have the same mentality that my mum and her 4 sisters and 2 brothers had when they were growing up. The idea that you can have a group of friends that all get on seems to be unavailable. I’m not delusional, I know it is rare to keep the same group of friends let alone one, but at the same time, why is it?
If you ask different people, you get different answers; ‘bitchiness’, ‘boys’, ‘jealousy’, or even all of the above.
When did a friends stop supporting each other just for the case of a simple matter that could have been solved by an apology. Especially females. How did females bring an image upon themselves to become bitter rather than sweet?
If a woman is feeling neglected, another woman will most likely agree rather than bring some prosperity to the situation by being positive. Why? Why do we support by agreeing with negative situations, why do we not think positive? What do we gain by immediately thinking about the bad rather than the good?
Imagine you had a bad day, to which you then had an argument with someone who is experiencing a close one passing away from them slowly day by day, that you never knew about. That man then decided that he cannot go home due to the stressful day he had, and then decided to stay out for a few hours. The battery on his phone dies and the bus he catches every evening to get home each day has stopped running so he has a long walk home. To which he discovers, his close one passed away in the past few hours and he could not be there.
I am not saying that if you argue with someone, something as bad as that will happen, but all energies spread quickly. If negativity can spread that quick, imagine how quick positive energy could spread. Imagine the good that could be produced rather than the hurt that most of us feel.
I learnt this not long ago, not only your actions, but thoughts affect the energy around you. Having negative thoughts creates negatives situations. Bringing positive energy, is something that has to be done independently and individually. No-one but yourself can make your life better. Just the same way that if you want something you have to go out there and get it. Thinking positive makes you see the good in everything and everyone, it detaches you from the schemes that you first thought everyone had against you and brings you to the reality that their is a much bigger world with bigger problems, and worrying over one minor situation is not worth the energy that brings you down.
Just a bit of knowledge from my thoughts.